{"id":147204,"date":"2018-06-27T12:10:03","date_gmt":"2018-06-27T12:10:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/freeonlinetranslators.net\/news\/english\/it-crowd-star-katherine-parkinson-on-the-responsibility-to-be-a-working-mum\/"},"modified":"2018-06-27T12:10:03","modified_gmt":"2018-06-27T12:10:03","slug":"it-crowd-star-katherine-parkinson-on-the-responsibility-to-be-a-working-mum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/freeonlinetranslators.net\/news\/english\/it-crowd-star-katherine-parkinson-on-the-responsibility-to-be-a-working-mum\/","title":{"rendered":"IT Crowd star Katherine Parkinson on the &#8216;responsibility&#8217; to be a working mum"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>                                  <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sara Gregory and Katherine Parkinson in Home, I&#039;m Darling\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/DC15\/production\/_102214365_home.jpg\"\/>Image copyright                  Manuel Harlan<figcaption>Image caption                                      Sara Gregory (left) and Katherine Parkinson star in Home, I&#039;m Darling                              <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"caps\">Can you balance work and home life, and which should come first? That question is posed in a new play starring actress Katherine Parkinson, who says mothers have &quot;a responsibility&quot; to make the most of their skills.<\/p>\n<p>It&#039;s a familiar story in the acting world, as in all walks of life - a woman has children, pauses her career and then finds she&#039;s been left behind.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;There are so many brilliant actresses in the generation above me where you go, &#039;Oh they were great, what happened to them?&#039;&quot; says Parkinson, part rueful, part indignant.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I know what happened to them - they just didn&#039;t feel they ought to make that choice.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>While Parkinson, who has starred in TV&#039;s IT Crowd and Humans, stresses she prioritises her two children, she sees no reason to sacrifice her career.<\/p>\n<figure>                                                                                                       Image copyright                  Manuel Harlan<figcaption>Image caption                                      Katherine Parkinson plays 1950s housewife Judy                              <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>She was back at work six weeks after her second daughter was born, expressing milk on the Humans set.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I had to go against my instincts,&quot; she recalls. &quot;I don&#039;t like showing people my ankles and I had to express a bottle or three and just do it in the make-up chair and lose any dignity and any sexual allure that I might have had at 5am.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;You just do it and it&#039;s amazing how people adjust. There are so many dads, particularly on crews, and mums who understand.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>She&#039;s speaking while preparing to star in Laura Wade&#039;s new play Home, I&#039;m Darling, in which she plays a woman who gives up work to be a housewife and live in a fantasy of domestic bliss.<\/p>\n<p>It opened at Theatr Clwyd in Mold, north Wales, this week and will move to the National Theatre in London at the end of July.<\/p>\n<p>The plot may be about a woman who walks away from her job - but, behind the scenes, things have been designed to make it as easy as possible for the show&#039;s cast and crew to juggle work and family.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You might also like:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What becoming a mum taught Suranne Jones<\/li>\n<li>West End show job shares - could it work?<\/li>\n<li>Katherine Parkinson&#039;s war in Georgia<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The standard industry rehearsal schedule was rejigged so time could be used more productively, Parkinson explains.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;We&#039;ve done a shorter working day, which has meant I haven&#039;t missed a single bedtime. And we&#039;ve worked harder in the [rehearsal] room and had a slightly shorter lunch break and some people have told fewer anecdotes - which is only a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#039;s very interesting to see that it&#039;s fine. It works. A balance can be struck, and it&#039;s not going to be detrimental to the work.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Any working pattern is ultimately down to the boss. In this case, Parkinson&#039;s boss is director Tamara Harvey, who has been using the Twitter hashtag #workingmum to document her own (often fraught) attempts to give her all to both work and kids.<\/p>\n<p>Among other things, she&#039;s detailed sleeplessness, motherly guilt and three-month-olds pooing loudly in big important meetings.<\/p>\n<figure>                              Image Copyright @tamaracharvey               @tamaracharvey                      <noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/contact-us\/editorial\" rel=\"noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Report<\/a><\/noindex>       <\/figure>\n<figure>                   <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Twitter post by @tamaracharvey: \u201cThis scene change?\u201dBaby crying outside. I reckon it\u2019s mine (though I seem to be missing the \u201cYou always know your own baby\u2019s cry\u201d gene). He\u2019s fine. I know he\u2019s fine. My job is to sort the scene change. This team understands that. So why do I feel like a bad mother? #workingmum\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/socialembed\/https:\/\/twitter.com\/tamaracharvey\/status\/1010083452471926784~\/news\/entertainment-arts-44600719\"\/>Image Copyright @tamaracharvey                   @tamaracharvey                              <noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/contact-us\/editorial\" rel=\"noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Report<\/a><\/noindex>           <\/figure>\n<figure>                              Image Copyright @tamaracharvey               @tamaracharvey                      <noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/contact-us\/editorial\" rel=\"noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Report<\/a><\/noindex>       <\/figure>\n<figure>                   <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Twitter post by @tamaracharvey: Production meeting @NationalTheatre Many people. I am doing an excellent job of juggling small boy &amp; knotty questions. God I\u2019m good. Look at my juggling skills. Boy poos. Very loudly. Now I\u2019m just a mum. Sitting in front of a team. Asking them to ignore the poo. #workingmum\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/socialembed\/https:\/\/twitter.com\/tamaracharvey\/status\/1006987349966942208~\/news\/entertainment-arts-44600719\"\/>Image Copyright @tamaracharvey                   @tamaracharvey                              <noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/contact-us\/editorial\" rel=\"noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Report<\/a><\/noindex>           <\/figure>\n<p>Harvey says: &quot;I feel a responsibility, particularly as [Theatr Clwyd&#039;s] artistic director, to be brave about talking aloud about the challenges of being a parent or a carer and also having a job, and also, and also.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;There is a movement to find a way of making it possible for people to be in the performing arts and have a family, because at the moment the danger is we are just leeching people once they have children - we lose all of these creative people from the industry because we don&#039;t make it possible for that to happen.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>As for whether she thinks a balance can really be struck, that depends on how exasperated she feels at the time.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Ask me moment by moment and I will give you different answers,&quot; she says. &quot;There are moments when I think it&#039;s possible and there are moments when I think it&#039;s completely impossible.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>In the play, &quot;having it all&quot; for Parkinson&#039;s character Judy doesn&#039;t mean having a job and children. It means baking cakes and ironing her husband Johnny&#039;s shirts in their idealistic 1950s marriage.<\/p>\n<figure>                                                                                                       Image copyright                  Manuel Harlan<figcaption>Image caption                                      Director Tamara Harvey (left) and writer Laura Wade in the rehearsal room                              <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&quot;Having it all has been exposed as not necessarily as much fun as it sounds if having it all means having to do it all, all of the time,&quot; writer Laura Wade says.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Judy would think she and Johnny had found a better answer. That&#039;s their best solution to that problem.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Parkinson thinks her character retreats into the home because she wants a &quot;simpler life&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>But the actress believes that in real life, women aren&#039;t making the most of their talents if they stay at home, and she goes so far as to say they have a &quot;responsibility&quot; to work.<\/p>\n<figure>                                                                                                       Image copyright                  Manuel Harlan<figcaption>Image caption                                      Richard Harrington plays Judy&#039;s husband Johnny                              <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&quot;Your responsibility if you&#039;re a very clever person [like Judy] - is to be part of the workforce, in a way,&quot; she says. &quot;Maybe we should feel a collective responsibility to work.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I think Judy needs to be in the workplace because there&#039;s a forensic intelligence that ends up turning into a slight mania when she&#039;s just in the house.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#039;s [like] when you see the very clever alpha mums at the school gates who start to treat motherhood as a job because they&#039;re so gifted in so many areas.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Sometimes those women can overmanage. You have parties that have been done by party planners for two-year-olds and all the rest of it, and you think, you should be in the workplace because you&#039;re brilliant and you&#039;re frustrated and you don&#039;t even know it.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>That may be true, but some parents have little choice but to stay at home and some have little choice but to work. Some have accommodating bosses, some don&#039;t.<\/p>\n<p>On stage, the facade of Judy and Johnny&#039;s fantasy marriage inevitably starts to crack.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you opt for the &quot;simple life&quot;, the play shows that life is rarely simple.<\/p>\n<p>Follow us on Facebook, on Twitter @BBCNewsEnts, or on Instagram at bbcnewsents. If you have a story suggestion email entertainment.news@bbc.co.uk.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Image copyright Manuel HarlanImage caption Sara Gregory (left) and Katherine Parkinson star in Home, I&#039;m Darling Can you balance work and home life, and which should come first? 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